We have so few opportunities to have quiet in our lives, but it is essential to leading a gracious life. Noise is the number two complaint in restaurants, yet they continue to play loud music because it causes you to eat faster and drink more. Restaurant owners want to sell you more product and get you to consume it quicker so they can seat someone else there and sell them more product more quickly. Unfortunately, this leaves us with less time and inclination to talk with our companions, making the connections that are essential to a gracious life.

• Art of Gracious Living